When we begin doing our
emotional work, we often find that the ones we blame for our pain do not hold
the key to our healing.
Finally, after the
healing and realization that our parents did the best they could with what they
had...and that they never intended to do anything less than the best...we
forgive them and form an amazing adult relationship.
By the time it takes
us to realize our parents were only human - with faults as well as remarkable
qualities - so much time has gone by...